Pope transgender student granted graduation wish

Updating our story last week about Soren Tucker, a transgender student at Pope High School who wanted his preferred name announced at Wednesday’s graduation:

Soren Tucker

His wish was granted.

Lily Smith, a fellow Pope senior who started an online petition that has gathered more than 21,000 signatures, announced that the Cobb County School District had agreed to the request.

“It is unclear if there will be changes that affect the future and county policies, but we won this victory!” Smith wrote on Tuesday.

Tucker, who has identified as male for the last two years, will still have his legal female birth name on his diploma, as is the protocol for the Cobb County School District.

A Cobb County School District spokeswoman said Wednesday, shortly before the commencement ceremony, that Pope principal Thomas Flugum met with Tucker and his family for the first time on Tuesday.

“They had a great conversation and the student and parent’s preferences were taken into account during Pope’s graduation ceremony,” the spokeswoman said. “While official school business requires the use of a student’s legal name, all of our schools take student and family preference into account during informal school activities.”

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Transgender Pope senior asks for preferred name at graduation

Soren Tucker, transgender Pope senior
Soren Tucker posted a Hamlet-like photo on his Instagram page on his 18th birthday.

Since changing his first name as a sophomore at Pope High School, Soren Tucker says he hasn’t encountered many issues with identifying as transgender since then.

Born female, Tucker for the last two-plus years has gone by a family name from his mother’s side of the family, which is of Norwegian ancestry. He says he has largely been supported by other students and teachers at Pope.

Soren Tucker is the name listed under his senior photo in his yearbook, and as an active member of Pope Theatre  He even performed in a male role last fall in the club’s presentation of a one-act play entitled “Who’s Zoomin’ Who?”

Soren Tucker
Soren Tucker’s senior photo in the Pope yearbook.

But when Pope holds its commencement exercise Wednesday, Tucker’s birth name will be on his diploma, and more than likely will be uttered during Pope’s roll-call of graduating seniors.

That’s because Cobb County School District policy requires diplomas and graduation call-lists to include a student’s legal name.

Tucker, who turned 18 last fall, has not yet begun the process of legally changing his name, and is just now beginning to explore that process.

He said “I do plan on walking [to receive his diploma], but I’m not sure what I will do” if he does not hear his preferred name.

Tucker, who declined to reveal his birth name in an interview with East Cobb News, said he’s still hoping to have Soren listed on the call list, if not the diploma.

Lily Smith, a friend of Tucker’s, has begun an online petition that in just a few days has generated more than 13,000 signatures.

“Despite being fully supported and correctly recognized by students and staff, the administration refuses to recognize Soren by his name,” Smith wrote in her appeal. “This is a BLATANT act of transphobia, and the students of Pope High School do not and will not stand for hate, prejudice, and discrimination against their students. PLEASE sign and help us right this wrong.”

Soren TuckerA spokeswoman for the Cobb County School District reiterated the naming policy in response to a request for comment from East Cobb News, saying legal names are used for all official school business.

“If any student or family changes a student’s legal name, we update that student’s official record which impacts, among other examples, their schedules, transcripts, and diplomas,” the spokeswoman said.

When asked how he came to identify as transgender, Tucker said that for many people like him, “you just always know something’s not right.”

He said he’s trying to be happier in his life, and making a name change is “the easiest thing” he says he can do to become more comfortable at this point in his transition.

When asked if he’s planning on hormone treatment or surgery in the future, Tucker said that “generally, I prefer to live in the present.”

Tucker’s near-future includes enrolling as a freshman this fall at Kennesaw State University, where he plans to major in theatre performance and where he can use his preferred name.

Tucker says undergoing a name change is more than symbolic.

“It comes from knowing that something isn’t right,” he said. “It holds a lot more meaning than just a name. Transgender people just want to be regarded for who they really are.”

Soren Tucker
An honor Tucker received as a Pope senior includes his preferred first name.

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